Ok i had a long conversation with Bruce Ewert (L'Acadie Vineyards, formerly of Summerhill Pyramid, Hawthorne Mountain, Sumac Ridge, and one of our MEGA factory winemakers before that) about this, and i learned some stuff but I still think there's a hole in my knowledge!
yes, i was confused about mercaptans - they can be removed by aeration or copper - it is disulphides (burnt rubber, garlic, etc.) that need treatment to send the reaction the other way back to mercaptans, so they can be dealt with
but Bruce agreed with me that what i am probably smelling is SO2 from oversulphited wines, not H2S that should not be there in any noticeable quantity if winemaking is done properly.
he advised me to watch for new organic policies (Canada) that will result in lower sulphite wines, and ONLY natural cork wines, so that there should be no sulphury nose in his wines, H2S or otherwsie! Hey, you can't blame him for trying to make a sale

Actually, what Bruce is doing is one of the most exciting things in Nova Scotia (and in fact Canada) wine. He's making traditional method sparklers, and wines from dried grapes, all organic, and not just the vineyard. Organic, period. He is one of two new wineries openign in NS this year who specialize in TM sparklers. The climate is perfect.
I tasted his sparkler a few weeks ago (not to be released until May) and it was fantastic. Made from L'Acadie, a grape grown almost exclusively in Atlantic Canada. I think it had 18 months or maybe 24 of bottle conditioning. Similar to premium Sekt.
Bruce won many medals (best in Canada, several tuimes) for his TM sparklers, including Riesling based, in BC.
I can't wait for these wines to come out!